Over the years, Indian men got a bad name all over the world. Most women complain about immaturity, insensitivity, and insufficient evolution of Indian men. The demand for dowry did not help the image at all. The news of burning bride turned most women against them. But ladies no one ever tells you about the advantages of marrying an Indian man. If only you knew the truth, you are surely to see them in a new light. Maybe even consider them when you are ready to take the plunge. If you are already married, maybe you can tell your friends about them. So here are the top ten reasons to marry an Indian man.
- 10. They come in a family pack. You get a mother, a father, a few sisters-in-law, half dozen cousins, and countless relatives for free.
- 9. They would never leave you. They get fat and lazy too fast and no woman will ever be interested in them.
- 8. You will never get tired of hubby improvement projects. They come with countless imperfections and guaranteed to be really slow learners.
- 7. Despite their crude exterior and rude attitude, they are docile at heart. They are well trained by their mother to follow orders from woman of the house. You are in control.
- 6. They would be grateful all their lives; all other 37 girls they interviewed turned them down.
- 5. They will be available all the time. They do not have any friends or social life or passion to keep them busy.
- 4. You never have to worry about their past girlfriends: most likely they never had one, or in the rare case they had a girlfriend, she is too busy erasing the memory.
- 3. You will earn the sympathy of everyone, even your worst enemy.
- 2. They will stop harassing you once you marry them.
And number one reason for marrying an Indian man
- 1. For the rest of your life whenever you say “I could have done better,” you will be right.
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I liked the post..
But i must say that you haven’t had a taste of most Indian men these days. Points number 10 and 7 stay, but the rest….you could have done better.
Very typecast. Half of it is not reflective of the urban youth today. If you are hinting at the 10th pass Raju from Chapra district then I doubt if I can complaint.
lol..i agree with shrey…which world r u living in ….???
All I can say is that your observations are refelctive of the crude and unsophiticated image of the Indian male. An Indian male in 2008 is not as crude as you make him out to be. The village lout in Jhumritilaya, may be – but not the urban male.
The fact is like India, Indian male is typecast. India is all about cows, snake charmers (I havent seen one show in my whole life), dirty streets. That description of oriental India make us all cringe. Yes, we all know its partly ture, but all of us want to desperately show that the part that is untrue and not reflective of a modern India. We all want India to break out of the image mould.
Bashing the Indian male smacks of similar oriential mindset. Casting us as women beating, paan chewing, mother obsesssing, lazy louts is fashionable. Is it true? well partly – and that part is slowly vanishing. Please try, if you are unmarried, to ask for a dowry in the modern Indian marriage market and you will know how much India has moved on from the image you protray above.
The Indian female, I must admit, get the better part of the bargain. She is typecast of as the beautiful, submissive, clever, deft woman who is forever under the jackboot of the Indian male. Its not fashionable to call the spade a spade and point out the shortcomings of the Indian female. Calling the Indian female a nagging, unsophisticated dosent help readership, does it? But hey, you can do the same to the Indian male.
The western interaction with Indian male has been going on for much longer and hence opinions have been formed – some positive and others negative. The Indian female has not yet come under the scanner as yet.
I am sorry but your research sucks. You have just looked at one sefment or two. If you look at villages then that is how they mey be but very unlikely.
lol really good. Nice sarcastic nature
I just loved the 2nd one
Funny – and so true!
Most, not all, Indian men, both rural and mostly urban, are confused, insecure, pathetic, supremely lazy and cowardly; used to being pandered to by Mummmmy.
And of course most still believe that their Mummmyji’s are virgins. Idiots.
If I ever do marry an Indian man, he jolly well give ME a huge dowry.
( Important – I know a few excellent Indian guys who are v. courteous and wonderful. They are the 1& exceptions to the above rules!)
You must be dreaming. Get out and about girl go smell the roses.
While we (men of indian persuasion and proud of it) will happily admit to some of your scarcastic generalisations, your comments presume, item number 7 for instance, is a bad thing. By the way my and your mother are women!! So yes our mothers trained us well and we are proud of it.
And by the way, when finally we come home to roost, the 37 interviewees are part of the show, we would have long since exhausted our natural resouces and grown tired of the pursuit of willing women.
So come on in, marry the indian men, we’ll look after you allright, along with the others, part time, that we still cherish and care for.
And oh, do join us in some meaningful intellectual conversation once, if, you can prise yourself away from the lip gloss and the flashy clothes.
Awwwww look at all these men opposing this…
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I loved it
Good one!
my boss is an indian national and i find him really atractive.swear! he’s only 26yrs old but
he is so successful.i really like him..! hmmmm..kilig factor!
I can’t say I agree with this list or maybe I just got really lucky!
-Honeybee
well …. not all indian men are the same just like not all men are the same… my partner is indian hes best thing that i could ever wish for in every way ..*smiles* he will be my hubby on 20th jan 2009…
“people need to look at bigger picture in life not just single indian men out”
uh oh the blog really caught me off the tract!!! I have an indian bf and we plan to marry next year but goshhhhh…should i???
@eva .. DOnt you think that is teh question which will be best answered by u?
I can’t believe the violent reactions some people have expressed here. It’s clear that this is NOT a serious post and I don’t think the author was dumb enough to lump all Indian men in these categories. Loosen up people!
I actually came across this entry while I was searching for tips about interracial relationships, particular Indian and Filipino. My current boyfriend is Indian and we have talked about taking the next step. He doesn’t live up to the stereotype and we two are very happy together.
I’m marrying an Indian man for all 10 reasons…he’s worth every one!!! and our babies are going to be GORGEOUS like him and smart like me, Jewish
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The following comment by Simon from above should ironically be added to the list. I say “ironically” because he actually wrote it thinking it was a positive attribute;
“And by the way, when finally we come home to roost, the 37 interviewees are part of the show, we would have long since exhausted our natural resouces and grown tired of the pursuit of willing women. ”
In other words he’s saying; “yep, after dating and mating with willing women (as if willing women are bad?), we will return home to marry a good virgin picked out by Maa. Because Indian men should only marry virgins even if they are not virgins themselves”
Medieval attitude, and it actually PROOVES everything in the list!!!
you sound very white, always complaining about the other races. White men are the worst who beat their women and say it’s the other races that do it. Check the news you’ll see this to be true.
Well, I am dating an Indian, and here are my points to marry him
1. I have never experienced such an attitude as to the precious flower in the paradise garden.
2. He considers golden jewelry and beautiful clothes to be the best present for a woman.
3. He does not know what is cellulite and surely how it is supposed to look like
4. He does not care if I have extra 10 kg of weight
5. He likes to eat, and he is an awesome cook
6. He used to get everything by a hard work and is not going to stop.
7. As they are used to high competitions in their universities, he used to study a lot, he is an expert in his field and one of the best at work.
8. 6+7 = prospective feature.
9. And I can add 10 and half of 7 and 4 from the post list ))
10. And FROM MY EXPERIENCE with Americans and Europeans, I doubt I could have done better ,)
And 11!
He will not wait until his children will become 10 to pay attention at them
I agree! Indian men are awesome! I only date Indian’s and I can’t wait to marry an Indian man!
OMG ur so right, my fiance is just like that, i love him to bits, i think everyone needs a guy like the ones we got
I never have to cook again lol
I get gold whenever i want it
He works so hard
He’s romantic
He’s sweet and kind n i love him loads
You can’t generalize “all” Indian men in your description of them! i have an Indian boyfriend and hes so amazing. maybe your reffering to those traditional old Indian men, have you been living under a rock? get to know one Indian man and I’m sure your going to change your mind.
Hello!
Very Interesting post! Thank you for such interesting resource!
PS: Sorry for my bad english, I’v just started to learn this language
See you!
Your, Raiul Baztepo
I was just searching why woman want to always marry wid Indian guy but not tends to have fling or short term relationship.
Now I know the reason, but I think almost all true
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LOL! I wrote a post on why I had to find a firangi husband and your link came up in ’suggested link’. Loved your reasons, read mine too!
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ive dated an indian guy and he was so nice, thoughtful and generous at first and then after he became so weird especially about his parents like everywhere we go the parents must not know it. And he’s 33 years old but he’s still under his parents rule!!
My Indian boyfriend, Sameer, is the best guy in the world!
This is an attack upon Indians to push for separation between Indian men and women. Indian men should learn to be racist and protect what they have. Don’t think of this as being nice, or that racism is wrong, it is the one thing that will enable you to see things clearly from your own national perspective. You have to understand, war is not always with guns, sometimes it is with psychology, and this is one such attack. This is to put Indian men down so that the Indian women think of them as weak, and women don’t like weak men. Racism against others, kept in check and used when it has to be, aggressively enables you to protect what is yours, and keep it. Hate can be a useful tool, look at what has happened in the west. You had better drop this bleeding heart crap before you are lost, because no one else like this. Suggest you examine the psychology of women. If you can’t keep your own women, don’t expect any other to accept you, they will only look down on you, as weak people, and unable to protect them. Racism is not a bad thing, it helps define your peoples interests. Remember no women no children, think hard about this.
Indian “man”, a guy who has fun the way he wants to while studying here, goes to India to get married because of his insecurities and low self-esteem, because they don’t have the confidence of marrying an independent, beautiful and smart American (or American-Indian) woman and of course, they cannot control her (ther prime wish due to insecurities). Remember they are mamma’s cry babies and are cheap (ask any waiter) . Go to India, marry an innocent virgin, bring her here, pay her allowance, keep her like a slave but expect her to be an American woman in bed.
I so agree with this post… i see this even with some of the ‘urban’ guys of today… I’m a young woman that has only seen the negative qualities in all Indian men that I have come across and trust me that is quite a lot
mate ur soo wrong, how can u say this.
I really respect your research however it is very poor. I think you should be here to know what it is like. Stop looking at TV and the docs people show. I have lived here for over 28 years of my life and have not come across a single broken marriage . Every couple I have met is very happy. I guess you should relook at your 10 points.
jaded …
I pity you dude .No kidding , you need to see a psychiatrist .
Well my Indian fiancé must not be Indian then coz he aint rude, crude or lazy.
Where have you been living….pluto!
Please, the way I see it is you have had a bad experience with an Indian man, but guess what just like all men from all cultures there is assholes out there. Get over it, you cant bad mouth them all just for one jerk.
As for the last point you made…For me, you cant get better then my Girish, his a God send.
hey i have an Indian bf and he is the best bf I ever had! he works hard, had two degrees and earns well and spoils me like a princess. How can u say bad things… this is not cool! Racism should end! The world will always be a cruel place to live in if we continue such racism.
Don’t marry one. They’re selfish, inconsiderate and bring up stuff that happened ages ago in the present.