Well i like to say truth and this is what i show u the indian mentality but people can not understand. I am very outspoken. See i am very open very frank and dont bother what the other says about me. But this is sure that i dont hv the double standard.

But i also want to tell you that for their fun and none knows about one relation and just checking (know to eachother sentence) where 2 start living togather and get satisfy physically and none knows about it. And then they promise like 1st we know to eachother and then after sometime one comes back and then there is no contact or he does not like to talk or contact then….and thats the truth Rushi. Which i have seen in the real life. and i hate it.

you said about me “How ever what I can understand is you are also stuck in a mental block same like most of the Indian elders!” about the mental block, well i said all the things openly, which people cannot understand. I dont hv any mental block but thats the truth. Even i am an indian but whatever is the truth i told u very openly.

Thanks for your comment! But I understand by it; that many of the Indians having a double role at home & abroad? This is not acceptable and it will not give a good impression on Indians! You should have think twice before giving such a comment. you have a doubt on your own people! Because I travel to India so often and having many many friends from many years. But I did not meet ANY one who does so! Who ever has a lover will be fighting for it or at last will go for an arranged marriage but will be burning from inside! This is what I hate specially in India
In this case Iam really proud of my husband. Of course I met my husband’s family and they knew that we were going to marry. But they could not stop us. Anyway one of his sisters really helped us. We are having a happy life & working and living in Australia.
But as you say Amit, I dont know how people will marry in India and in abroad both!! Because if you wil get married out of your own country you have to provide proper documents to the government of the country which you are going to marry about your singleness!
Ya if I have emotions on some one it does not mean the other person should have it! But it is not a chance to play around with others emotions!
And why your parents will decide if you are ready to marry or not! It is your life and you should be the one who will decide. Dont you think it is funny!!!
How ever what I can understand is you are also stuck in a mental block same like most of the Indian elders!

So, thats also a good sign of friendship for the long only on the net.

Now i dont trust on anyone to whom i find on the net, because none of the guy here gives the right information. they like to cheat others and that is really bad.

I have seen many indians as well as foreigners (male and female both) who has more than one relations. and they like it, and if they like then whats wrong…?

See 5 fingers are not the same. Does not mean if u have emotions for someone, the same emotions he/she would have for you too.

I dont know about that man Rush, what does he do and where he lives? did u meet his family? Do u know there are many wrong things in the indian culture but maximum are good, like if i wanna get marry then 1st my parents will decide whether i am ready for that or not. Which i dont like but somewhere else its good.

But in your case Rushi, i dont know whether yr man told to his parents if he got married with you or not because sometimes people get married here and also get married in abroad too. I dont wanna put any doubt on you but tell you. it happens then none can help it. People like to cheat and this is what i hate.

Thanks for your comment on my previous post and Im really sorry for what happened to you from the Indian guy. But please dont use the word “Indians” to describe about him. Because they all are not the same at all! May be they have a bad reputation in your country, but there are at least some percentage of people there who are really nice and honest!

As I said my husband is an Indian and Im a Sri Lankan. We met in India , were in love for 3 yrs and even we lived separately in our own countries for 2yrs. But he never changed. He came to my country and we got married there.

But from the beginning his family is totally against on him to marry me.
When he said to them that he has a girl friend from another country his parents did not show any sign that they will be totally against for us to marry. But when he said he wants to marry me then they started all the drama! So I cant understand the logic behind it.

How ever I always respect him and also his family even though they did not accept me yet.
Even in India you will see many girls and boys having relationships for years even after they live together, at last they will marry a person whom arranged by their family.

Amit, Dont you think this should be changed in India? I know Indians are really nice people but when it comes to marriage most of them are narrow minded. Even the younger generation!

Also I would like to add: none of the parents are teaching wrong things to their children. It is the same in India. But Indian parents, when it comes to the marriage of their children; they are still stuck with culture, relatives, neighbors, etc.

They even threatening to disown their own child. So at last most of the children have to listen to their parents other than loosing them. Parents will black mail their children emotionally which at last the child will be a cheater or a play boy for their true lover! But the worst thing is most of the children will adjust their mind to marry a stranger whom proposed by parents and will suffer from inside for the whole life!

But Shalimar, I think your case is exceptional because you met him online and trusted him 100% . Of course what he did to you is not acceptable at all but you also must have been more cautious when he proposed to have a serious relationship by just seeing your profile!

But do not care about his threats if you have his all emails and photos etc. go and file a case against him. At least he will not be able to step in your country again!

7. Despite their crude exterior and rude attitude, they are docile at heart. They are well trained by their mother to follow orders from woman of the house. The ma-in-law will run your life.

MOST Indian men are mama’s boys. Sad but true.